Its weather like this in Phoenix that is just to die for. It was beautiful this weekend. I got my hair cut and colored on Saturday..thoroughly relaxed and enjoyed myself
Sunday was a great day with church and Johnny had a birthday party at the park. I went to my Coda meeting(codependents anonymous) and two points hit home. One lady said how she hates teasing(sounds like my hubby), I have found that I grew up with a mom that teased me a lot..and the teasing actually got a little barbed, I think she used it to get her points across but it was almost mean..I find that I do that as well. Hubby tells me this and actually I have had another person say that as well. I am going to try to really work on thinking about what I am saying prior to saying it.
Point 2, its ok to be right and not say it...maybe I should phrase that another way...being right all the time is not always good. I find that I need to validate my worth by showing others I know what I am talking about..sometimes it comes across as bragging and then other times why can't I just listen without giving my two cents. So this week those are two items I am going to work on myself with. Listening more and not trying to always be right and limit the teasing.
Hope you all had a fabulous weekend!